This poem derives its title and somewhat embellished content from President Joe Biden’s speech, responding to the shooting at an elementary school in Uvalde, Texas, on May 24, 2022.
Nineteen children were killed, and two adults.
Just a week before, another mass shooting, inspired by racial hatred and documented with a manifesto online, took place in a grocery store in Buffalo, NY. Most of the victims were elderly and black.
Children inspire a special kind of grief, as evidenced by the 24-7 news coverage of this latest incident. But we must remember that all lives are equally precious.
During his speech, Biden expressed compassion for the victims’ families. He asked “Why?” and expressed the same embarrassed befuddlement we all feel, when we take note of the fact that this seems to happen more often here, in the US, than anywhere else.
Statistically speaking, it should not be so. Morally speaking, it should not be so.
Often, in his speeches, Biden refers to grief. He has a certain familiarity with it, having lost both a spouse and children over time.
In this speech, he used the somewhat antiquated term “scores.” He was referring to the number of children lost to school mass shootings over time (not to mention those lost in other, more mundane incidents of gun violence. If the death of a child can ever be described as “mundane.”) A score refers to a group of twenty.
This use of the word “score”makes us recall the famous Gettysburg Address by another president, Abraham Lincoln. Lincoln was speaking in a time of bloody Civil War. In that speech, which begins “Four-score and seven years ago…” Lincoln asked Americans to resolve “that these dead shall not have died in vain…”
In his speech, Biden may have been even more plainspoken than honest Abe. But let us hope that his simple words will also inspire great change.
The nation grieves for the families of the recent victims and, I hope, for the families of all who have fallen to gun violence in years past. I am sorry if it seems “too soon.” But as Biden pointed out, when does it ever seem like a good time to speak a terrible truth?
Thanks for coming by to read.
I know your pain.
I feel your pain.
With grief, I’m well-acquainted.
I’ve lived. Which means,
My friends have died.
My wife. And yes, my children.
They point at me.
I speak too soon,
The wound still raw and bleeding.
What, should I wait
Till you stop crying?
Then, express compassion?
What makes us hate?
What makes the young
Pull out a gun and shoot it?
T’would be no less
A tragedy,
If we but understood it.
“Fourscore and seven
Kids ago…”
(If only it were so few)
Would make a speech
More memorable
Than what I say to you.
As President,
I’m powerless.
Each life a brittle thread.
But give a gun
To anyone
And boom! A child is dead.
I can’t explain it,
Can’t prevent it,
Over and over again,
With all the shock
And horror of
A looping World War film.
Ten years ago,
Another school.
Another parent, weeping.
Nine hundred shootings
In between:
Why have we all been sleeping?
A child, a shopper:
Does it matter
Whom the bullet fells?
No reason could be
Good enough
To put you through this hell.
No manifesto,
Scrawled in pencil.
No desire for fame.
He turned a gun
Upon his own.
Yet we are all to blame.
I’m sick and tired
Of Thoughts and Prayers,
Disputing shades of gray.
I know your pain.
I’ve lost a child.
But Jesus,
Not this way.
Copyright 2022 Andrea LeDew
For an essay on the Parkland massacre in a high school in South FL, read River of Grass. For a lament on how we never do anything about gun violence, read my revised lyrics to a the Irving Gordon song, sung beautifully by Nat King Cole (“Unforgettable”) which I call Unpreventable Still .
For a call to action, inspired by a review of past threats and how an America we can be proud of responded to them, read Remember. For a poem on the Oxford mass shooting read Bullies. For a pep talk on what we can do about this mess, read The Yoke.
I look forward to hearing what you think of this post!.